When I want to escape from real life, I often read books and watch movies that are dystopian. There are a lot of these to choose from like George Orwell's 1984, The Handmaid's Tale, The Book of Eli, I Am Legend, The Truman Show, and Blade Runner. (Yes, I’m old so some of these references are old too.)
 
I would like to find more utopian stories to get lost in and have as a more positive vision for the future. Imagine a society or community where people experience the ideal or an almost perfect life.

Early in my career, I remember a manager tell her team of HRIS data analysts to stop sending out the weekly and month reports they created.
 
The analysts were worried that their internal customers would be upset because the reports were needed. The manager reassured them that the reports that were critical to decision making would be requested. Someone would say, "Hey, I didn't receive ABC report. What's up?" Then the analyst could send the report.

I spend a lot of time using Excel. I sort, filter, and run pivot tables.

I look at averages, medians, highs, and lows.

I take the job, pay, and employee data and tell a story to influence decision making.

I spend employer money to attract and retain employees. I design incentives to motivate employees to deliver the results the company needs to achieve.

I consult with a lot of employers who say they pay for performance.

And then you look at the merit increases by performance rating and there isn’t much of a difference between the high performers and the employees who need improvement.

Some employers have bonus programs that payout based on performance at the company, business unit, and/or individual employee level.

I’ve been a team member on numerous compensation system implementation projects. What is true in most of the projects are:

1) The employer’s job and employee data are not clean. Errors exist in the system of record or data that is needed is not available.

Not staying at an employer and job hopping is the norm for younger generations. This isn’t the norm for baby boomers.

There are rewards when you job hop. Typically, you see an increase in pay and you are often valued more as an external candidate than an internal candidate when an employer is trying to fill a job.

The stigma associated with job hopping is diminishing as baby boomers leave the workforce and other leaders become more accepting of this behavior.

I’ve watch company after company announce layoffs and read the posts from the employees impacted.

It can be devastating news if you liked your job, manager, coworkers, or employer. It can be happy news if you were ready to leave anyway.

And to those who don’t get laid off, it can be terrible news because you now have to do the work of those who are leaving.

I’ve worked with many employers who want to make exceptions to their normal pay decision making process for unique employees or candidates. Here are some examples:

(1) Sam has significantly more experience than the job requires, and they are viewed as a future successor for their VP’s role. The requested exception is to pay above the maximum of the base salary range.

March 14th is equal pay day. It represents how far into the year women must work to make what men made in the previous year.

The gender pay gap has barely moved in 20 years.

Women employed in the U.S. lose on average nearly $1.6 trillion every year due to the wage gap. These lost wages mean women and their families have less money to support themselves, care for their families and communities, and save and invest for the future.

Do you remember the feeling when you came home on Spring Break from college?

If your home was a refuge and a place to relax, it felt so good to walk in the door and drop your bags on the floor. To have a big bed, no annoying roommates, and the comfort food you loved ready for you to eat was such a joy.

My daughter is home from college this week. She’s slept in, hung out with friends, enjoyed some of her favorite foods, and has an ever-growing list of all the things she may do this week.

Is it a realistic goal?

• Achieving full gender equality could take close to 300 years if the current rate of progress continues. (Source: UN Women and the UN Department of Economic and Social Affairs)

• Gallup defines equity as fair treatment, access and advancement for each person in an organization.

• Fair means impartial and just. It is without favoritism or discrimination.

I watched my 18-year-old daughter choose her college major of Construction Science and Management last year. She will complete her freshman year in a few months and is in the same major. (Amazing.) Her roommate changed her major after just a few months of college.  (Normal.)

Choosing what you want to be when you grow up at 18 is a big decision. Or it feels like it at the time.

To every woman who is feeling unseen and unheard. I see you.

To women who feel misunderstood and not recognized. I see you.

To women who aren't paid equitably or provided the opportunities they deserve. I see you.

Roughly one month for every $10,000 you want to earn. $100,000 = ~10 months

What factors affect how long the job search will take?

• Depth of your work experience and perceived salary requirements

• Your network

I made a decision recently and don’t know if it was the right one. But to implement the decision, I must fully commit and not dwell on “what could have been” with the alternative I didn’t choose.

How often do you second guess yourself?

When you make a decision, do you think through the consequences based on a short-term or long-term perspective?

Years ago, I read a book by Suzy Welch called 10 - 10 - 10. I remember this because the concept was simple.

I once worked for a company that had 5 metrics in their annual bonus plan. That was what they said.

Beneath those 5 metrics were categories: (1) Company, (2) Business Unit, and (3) Individual Employee.

In each category there were additional metrics. So, I counted how many metrics an employee might have to focus on for the year.

I recognize that when I am talking to a potential client this is an unspoken question. I can say anything, but it is my actions over time that tell the truth.

I like the Trust Triangle model by Frances Frei and Anne Morriss.

1. Authenticity - I experience the real you.
2. Empathy - I believe you care about me and my success.

I talked to a potential coaching client today. They shared details about why they want to be paid more and as I asked questions, I realized they don’t have the leverage needed to get what they want.

Leverage is the power that one side of a negotiation has to influence the other side to move closer to their negotiating position. You have leverage when you deliver something of value that the other party wants or when you cause them to incur costs they do not want.

At the end of your life will you want one more day or more money? My assumption is that most of us will want that additional day. How would you spend it?

• I’d spend time outdoors.

• I’d talk to a friend or family member.

• I’d do something related to my spiritual well-being like pray.